For this post I decided to pick
principles 2 and 5. First up is principle 2 “Our nonverbal
communication is likely to be believed more than our verbal
communication.” The reason why I chose this is because the
importance of intimacy in our mutual or romantic relationships. I'll
say that the best example for this would be a person who assumes what
another person is going to do. You can notice how well you know a
person when you already assume their actions 1-2 steps ahead of them.
Lets say your best friend is going to buy an expensive car, if your
friend is well informed you would assume he or she is buying the car
because of its overall performance but if your friend lacks
information you could assume that he or she is buying the car for its
color or cup-holders. This principle also applies in professional
fights and poker as well, though the participants do not know each
other a pattern of nonverbal communication can occur through small
twitches, breathing, and habitual movements. When I enter my fights
for martial arts I normally say “Everyone is scared of something in
a fight, it does not matter how tough you are you're going to flinch
to things you don't like such as nut shots or hits you barely
notice.”
My second choice out of the eight
principles was principle 5 “Cultural norms and expectations guide
our interpretation.” The reason why I want to talk about this
principle is because I have noticed that I make friends with other
Asian people much more quickly than other races. The reason why is
because we have expected cultural norms of each other and we
understand our decisions culturally. A non Asian man could come up to
me and talk to me about my parents and how they want me to get
straight As and become a doctor, because he is different culturally I
would feel offended. But if another Asian man were to tell me the
same then I would laugh it off with them. Its not racist of me or
anything its just that the status of a person could deliver humor in
a good or bad way. Is it funny for a man to talk about women being
raped compared to men talking about men being raped? Its your opinion
from there.
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